Episode 11

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24th Nov 2025

Reinventing Your Life and Choosing Yourself: Eboni K. Williams on Relationships, Personal Growth, and Becoming a Single Mom by Choice

In this week’s episode, Eboni K. Williams shares the truth behind her transformation and the choices that shaped her life. We talk about how childhood patterns influence every decision we make, why relationships can often hold you back or change the course of your future, and how ignoring red flags will always cost you more in the long run.

Eboni opens up about choosing herself, stepping out of comfort zones, and the deeply emotional realities of egg freezing and IVF. We explore the importance of self-compassion, personal accountability, and the power of community among women. She also shares how her path led her to become a single mom by choice (SMBC), and how motherhood has reshaped her understanding of growth, identity, and purpose.

Tara and Eboni also share a message for younger women around dating, relationships, and fertility, including the decisions that protect your future self.

If you’re a woman in a season of reinvention, healing, or starting over, this conversation will give you clarity, courage, and the reminder that choosing yourself is always the right choice.

Connect with Tara:

Instagram: @tararesnick

TikTok: @tararesnick1

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Connect with Eboni:

Instagram: @ebonikwilliams

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About the Podcast

This Wasn't the Plan with Tara Resnick
Where 'Plan B' becomes the path to resilience and reinvention
This Wasn’t the Plan is a personal growth podcast for anyone ready to evolve — blending self-help, mindset, and real stories of resilience. Whether you’re rebuilding after change, navigating a transition, or simply working on becoming your best self, this is the podcast for you.

Hosted by Tara Resnick (@tararesnick), each episode explores resilience, reinvention, and self-development through real-life stories and expert conversations that help you build confidence, clarity, and direction in any season of life.

Guests include people who have faced career pivots, relationship shifts, wellness journeys, infertility journeys, and unexpected detours - alongside professionals, coaches, and wellness experts sharing mindset tools, coping strategies, and practical steps for growth.

If you’re seeking inspiration, motivation, or guidance to create a more aligned, empowered life, this podcast is for you. Because sometimes the detour becomes the path - and that’s where the real growth begins.

For more tools and inspiration on resilience, mindset, and personal growth, visit www.tararesnick.com or follow Tara on Instagram (@tararesnick) and TikTok (@tararesnick1).

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Tara Resnick

Tara Resnick is a healthcare professional, solution focused coach, fitness instructor and the creator and host of This Wasn’t the Plan: When Plan B Becomes the Path to Resilience and Reinvention. After facing her own journey of unexpected detours—including the heartbreak of infertility and the challenge of rewriting her dreams—Tara discovered the power of resilience, reinvention, and telling the truth about life when it doesn’t go the way you imagined.

Through her podcast, Tara creates a space for honest conversations about navigating Plan B—whether that means fertility struggles, career pivots, personal growth, or starting over. With a mix of storytelling, inspiration, and expert insights, she helps listeners feel less alone and more empowered to create a meaningful life on the other side of disappointment.

Passionate about authenticity and connection, Tara’s mission is to remind people that just because it wasn’t the plan doesn’t mean it can’t be beautiful.